I know how hard finding a retroactive jealousy cure is because I’ve been there myself. A few short years ago I used to be where you are now – struggling with retroactive jealousy ocd.
And, to be honest, not getting very far.
My girlfriend’s past used to be the first thing I thought about when I woke up.
And the last thing when I went to sleep.
I was bombarded by negative thoughts and emotions about my girlfriend’s sexual past that I couldn’t shake.
I used to liken it to a “steady background hum”.
No matter what I was doing — watching a movie, talking to someone, even having sex with my girlfriend — her ex-lovers would pop into my brain.
Firstly, Just What Is Retroactive Jealousy?
Retroactive jealousy (sometimes known as retrograde jealousy or retrospective jealousy) is an affliction in which a person becomes obsessed by a boy or girlfriend’s past.
How do you know if you have it, or if you’re just “going through a phase”?
Well, if your partner’s past only pops into your head when they talk about it, maybe it’s just a phase.
If, on the other hand, it’s on your mind 24/7, then maybe you have a retroactive jealousy disorder.
This retroactive jealousy be either over a partner’s romantic or sexual past.
For me it was definitely my girlfriend’s sexual history that I had a problem with.
Shortly after we started dating I’d discovered that she’d had five sex-buddies on the go at once.
This had lasted for the six months before we met.
You can read about my retrograde jealousy and how I got the damn thing here.
Needless to say, this retroactive jealousy disorder would inevitably make me do stupid things on a regular basis such as:
- going through photos of her with hook-up buddies
- starting arguments
- quizzing her about her past
- spending hours reading Loveshack forums
In short, it was a living nightmare.
Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy Sucks, But…
If any of this sounds familiar, then I hope you find comfort in knowing that:
- you’re not alone — I for one am here to help
- dealing with retroactive jealousy is not as hard as it appears right now
- you CAN stop thinking about the past
- you WILL stop thinking about the past
The problem is, finding a retroactive jealousy cure is notoriously difficult on your own.
But here’s how you can start getting over a girlfriend’s past or boyfriend’s past.
Starting right now.
The Ultimate Retroactive Jealousy Cure
I have developed three forms of retroactive jealousy treatment:
This is the first product I created and is a straight-down-the-line manifesto of how to stop being jealous in a relationship.
My one-on-one Retroactive Jealousy Coaching
If you’d prefer a more personalized approach I’m here to talk.
We can chat either by email or Skype and I’ll guide you through how to get over retroactive jealousy for good.
My course “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy 101”
This breaks down getting over retroactive jealousy ocd into twelve downloadable video modules.
It’s packed full of practical exercises not found in the book and also contains free one-on-one personal coaching.
You CAN Learn How To Beat Retroactive Jealousy (And Here’s The Proof)
Here’s a link to my testimonials page in which you can read customers reviews, like this one from Annabelle:
After 10+ years of suffering with what I just discovered was reactive jealousy, I just finished reading your book. Wow! It was just what I was searching for…”
People like Annabelle were where I was three years ago and where you’re at right now.
But through either my book, course and personal coaching, they’ve worked out a retroactive jealousy cure with my help.
Do You Really Want To Go On Like This?
I’m thinking no, you don’t.
So why not make today the first day of your victory in getting over retroactive jealousy?
I’d be happy to chat with you if you want to discuss how best to stop thinking about the past.
Drop me a line at jeff[at]retroactivejealousycrusher[dot]com any time.
My jealousy over my girlfriend’s sexual past used to be pretty bad.
But now I don’t think about it all.
And she’s so happy I took the steps required to get over it.
If I can benefit from this retroactive jealousy cure, so can you.