How To Forget Your Girlfriend’s Sexual Past

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by Jeff Billings in Retroactive Jealousy Blog
July 27, 2016
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I was recently invited by the Huffington Post to write about how to forget your girlfriend’s sexual past. This is a problem that affects many, many guys and so, if you’re one of them, I strongly suggest reading the article below.


Do you get a nasty feeling whenever you think about your wife or girlfriend’s sexual past?

Specifically the times they had casual sex before they met you?

How do you feel if you think about your girlfriend’s sexual past?

Her f**k buddies?

One-night stands?

Drunken restroom quickies?

Some of us are about to take it on the chin.

Others, take it like a punch in the gut. And then find themselves unable to get over it. To move on.

Some guys find themselves consumed by negative emotions such as judgment, anger and anxiety.

As you’re reading this, maybe you’re familiar with the repetitive, OCD-like thoughts about your girlfriend’s sexual past?

This is known as “Retroactive Jealousy OCD”.

But in this post I’d like to shed some light on how to forget your girlfriend’s sexual past by realigning your attitude toward women and sex.


How To Forget Your Girlfriend’s Sexual Past By Remembering Everything Is A Societal Construct

Here’s the first thing you need to do if you want to learn how to forget your girlfriend’s sexual past:

Forget much of the trash us men have been brought up to believe about female sexuality.

Unless you’ve been raised as a Mormon or in some other kind of strict religious environment, the reason why you find it so hard to overcome retroactive jealousy is because you’re accepting societal “norms”.

These are the norms tell us that women don’t enjoy sex as much as men, and so consequently are less promiscuous.

Not only that, but they’re somehow doing something wrong if they enjoy sex.

Sleeping with boyfriends is acceptable.

But sleeping with random different guys just for fun, is not.

To read the rest of this post and continue learning how to forget your girlfriend’s sexual past, click here

How To Deal With Your Girlfriend’s Sexual Past: The Easy Way

If you need REAL help with learning how to beat retroactive jealousy, why not check out my course “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy 101”.

Or my book “The Ultimate Retroactive Jealousy Cure: How To Stop Being Jealous Of Your Partner’s Past in 12 Steps





  1. Scarlet says:

    I found this site after a friend recommended it. My boyfriend can’t stand the fact I’ve slept with more people than him. Any kind of help would be really appreciated!

    1. John Doe says:

      Hi Scarlet, do you have any details such as the boyfriend being long distance or how long you have been together for?

      Many thanks,


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