Why Your Girlfriend’s Past Doesn’t Matter

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by Jeff Billings in Retroactive Jealousy Blog
July 17, 2016

If you want a simple answer to why your girlfriend’s past doesn’t matter it’s because it doesn’t exist. All we have, and all we ever have, is the here and now. This present moment.

In order to fully understand this, try to do the following:

  • Think a thought while you’re in the past.
  • Make an action while you’re in the past.

It’s impossible, isn’t it? You can’t think a single thought or make a single action that exists anywhere outside of the now. This present moment is our entire universe. It’s all we have because both the past and the present are mind constructs that don’t exist.

But you already knew this, right?

If learning why your girlfriend’s past doesn’t matter was as simple as acknowledging the obvious, you wouldn’t be here. If all you had to do was realize the past doesn’t exist anymore, you’d have stopped worrying about your girlfriend’s sexual history ages ago.

It’s in the past. Gone. Never to return or be repeated.

Why Your Girlfriend’s Past Doesn’t Matter, But STILL DOES

But you haven’t been able to stop thinking about the past. For some reason you can’t shake that horrible nagging sensation that there’s something “wrong” with your girlfriend’s past and you can’t shake it. A sensation that seems to follow you around all day, from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep.

How do you remember why your girlfriend’s past doesn’t matter from day to day? How do you make it stay with you so that whenever a jealous thought pops in your mind, you’re able to just shrug it off and continue on as normal?

Granted, this can be a tough skill to master, but it’s not impossible. In fact, it’s easier than you may think. All it takes is a little practice. And by practice I mean action.

In order to be able to forget your girlfriend’s sexual past as quickly as it enters your head requires changing both the way you think and your actions. It requires dedication on your part — a real commitment to wanting to overcome retroactive jealousy ocd for good — and I can show you how to do it.

Hundreds and hundreds of guys from all over the world have learnt how to make their wife/girlfriend, husband/boyfriend’s past no longer matter by following my simple, actionable 12 step program. I know this because they tell me, via emails of thanks on a weekly basis.

I have a number of programs available that can help: a book “The Ultimate Retroactive Jealousy Cure: How To Stop Being Jealous Of Your Partner’s Past in 12 Steps”, a course “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy 101” and I also offer personal one-on-one coaching.


Your retroactive jealousy disorder is certainly not as strong as you may think right now. I should know because I used to be where you are, and so I know how what it feels like. But as I said, with some practice it’s possible to learn to live more fully in the present moment and leave your girlfriend’s past lovers where they belong — long forgotten.

Want to know why your girlfriend’s past doesn’t matter, but REALLY believe it so you can finally forget about the past? Sign up and let’s get to work.


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