overcoming retroactive jealousy

My Girlfriend’s Threesome Past

Author: Max (32), male, from England, is in a committed relationship for 2 years and 6 months with his girlfriend (27).

How many people has your partner had sex with?

21

How many people have you had sex with?

18

How long have you suffered from retroactive jealousy? 

A couple of times but never as bad as this.

How much time a day do you spend thinking about your partner’s past?

All added up probably about two hours in total.

How did you find out about your partner’s past? 

She just told me like it was nothing, right at the beginning of our relationship.

Have you talked to her about your retroactive jealousy and if so what happens? 

Not really. I’ve asked a few questions but think it’s best I leave it.

Tell us what exactly you’re jealous about in her past? 

She’s had quite an active sex life and has had two threesomes in her life. Once when she was totally wasted and once when she was sober. It’s not the one night stands that bother me so much as the threesomes.

Just can’t seem to get the images out my head of her being banged by two guys at once. It’s just too much.

What bugs you the most about your partner’s past? 

The fact that she would do that, and not once either but twice. I think the one when she was sober gets me even more than the drunk one. At least she had an excuse when she was wasted.

Have you ever snooped through your partner’s personal belongings off or online? 

Not yet.

Is your partner still in contact with their ex-lover(s) or does your partner contact them? 

No thank god.

Have you met your partner’s ex-lover(s) and if so what happened? 

No but if I did I don’t know what I’d do.

If you could get one image out of your head regarding your partner’s past, what would it be? 

My girlfriend with one in her mouth and another taking her from behind.


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About The Author

Jeff Billings

Jeff Billings used to suffer needlessly with Retroactive Jealousy until he found the cure. All by himself. And now he's here to show you how to beat it too.

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