I know how much being jealous of past relationships sucks because I’ve been there myself.
A few short years ago I used to be where you are now – struggling to work out how to beat retroactive jealousy.
And, to be honest, not getting very far.
My girlfriend’s past used to be the first thing I thought about when I woke up.
And the last thing when I went to sleep.
Throughout the day I was bombarded by a steady barrage of negative thoughts and emotions about her past that I couldn’t shake.
I used to liken it to a “steady background hum”.
No matter what I was doing — watching a movie, talking to someone, even having sex with my girlfriend — her ex-lovers would pop into my brain.
Why Do We Get Jealous Of Past Relationships?
Retroactive jealousy (sometimes known as retrograde jealousy or retrospective jealousy) is an affliction in which a person becomes obsessively jealous of past relationships.
This can be either romantic or sexual past relationships.
For me it was definitely my girlfriend’s sexual past that I had a problem with.
Shortly after we started dating I’d discovered that she’d had five sex-buddies on the go at once during the six months before we met.
You can read here about how I got retrograde jealousy.
Needless to say, this retroactive jealousy ocd would inevitably make me do stupid things on a regular basis:
- going through photos of her with hook-up buddies
- starting arguments
- quizzing her about her past
- spending hours reading Loveshack forums
In short, it was a living nightmare.
And I know you may be living it right now, but here’s how I can help you stop being jealous of past relationships.
Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy The Easy Way
If any of this sounds familiar, then I hope you find comfort in knowing that:
- you’re not alone — I for one am here to help
- overcoming retroactive jealousy is not as hard as it appears right now
- you CAN stop thinking about the past
- you WILL stop thinking about the past
The problem is, stopping jealousy of past relationships is notoriously difficult on your own.
That’s why I have developed three ways to help:
This is the first product I created and is a straight-down-the-line manifesto of how to stop being jealous in a relationship.
My course: “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy 101”
This breaks down getting over retroactive jealousy into twelve downloadable video modules.
It’s packed full of practical exercises not found in the book and also contains free one-on-one personal coaching.
My Coaching Packages: “Personal One-On-One Retroactive Jealousy Coaching”
If you’d prefer a more personalized approach to learning how to stop being jealous of past relationships, I’m here to talk.
We can chat either by email or Skype and I’ll guide you through how to get over retroactive jealousy for good.
You CAN End A Retroactive Jealousy Disorder (And Here’s The Proof)
Discover the exact same steps I took in order to cure retroactive jealousy.
My situation may have been unique to me, but the scourge of retrospective jealousy afflicts everyone in more or less the same way.
This means everyone can be treated in the same way.
And my course, book and coaching will guide you through the specific process needed to stop being jealous of past relationships.
Here’s a link to my testimonials page in which you can read customers reviews, like this one from Josh (not his real name):
“I am so thankful for this purchase. It not only saved my relationship, but it saved my time, and my eternal happiness. I can’t believe I can say that I know I am going to overcome this jealousy that has plagued my mind.”
People like Josh used to be where I was three years ago and where you are right now.
But through either my book, course and personal coaching, they’ve worked out how to quit being jealous of past relationships.
Do You Really Want To Go On Suffering From Retroactive Jealousy OCD? Or Do You Want To Beat It?
Why not make today the first day of your victory in getting over retroactive jealousy?
Why not start right now?
Surely you’ve wasted enough time thinking about this stuff already?
I’d be happy to chat (for free) with you if you want to discuss how best to stop thinking about the past.
Drop me a line at jeff[at]retroactivejealousycrusher[dot]com any time.
My jealousy over my girlfriend’s sexual history used to be pretty bad.
But now I don’t think about it all.
And my girlfriend’s so happy I took the steps required to get over it.
If I can do it, so can you.
Take the first step to not being jealous of past relationships right now.